Do you want to Bate more?

There seems to be two types of people who follow me on social media. The first are people who bate a lot. They enjoy bating so much that they make it apart of their lives in many different ways. They also enjoy being encouraged to bate more. The second type of person is someone who of occasion bates but does not make lots of time to do it. They might bate every couple of days and may often feel guilt or shame around it. Today’s newsletter really focuses more on the second group of people. The ones who may bate infrequently but feel they want to develop better habits or practices around increasing their bates.

I am going to explore some ways in which you can increase the amount of time you spend bating. These will be little things which you can do in various places and times to increase the amount of bating you do. The idea is that by incorporating a few of these into your daily life you can start to increase the amount of time you spend bating. They also do not always require you to cum and so can be used to play more with yourself during the day as you learn what works for you.

1. Bate when you get an erection

As men we experience many different moments during our days in which we get erections without us doing anything. Quite often these are associated with waking up but sometimes they might occur at other times during the day. I am going to encourage you whenever you feel a slight erection to put your hand on it and give it a good stroke. Doesn’t have to be long but just so long as you give it a bit of attention when the feeling arises. By doing this consistantly you will probably find, as I did, that by acknowledging your erections more that they become a little bit more frequent. Regardless playing with an erection whether feeling aroused or not is a great way to increase some bate time.

2. Bate between tasks

Often we have it in our minds that when we bate it must be some particular length of time and that if we are unable to satisfy this requirement we can't do it. But no matter how much time you have there is absolutely nothing wrong with having a little bate and play between tasks. You don't even need to be able to cum at the end. You can simply just have a little wank and move on with your day. Doing it this way means you can simply use more of the little bits of time you have throughout the day. Adding all these together will show you how you can increase the amount of time you spend in your bate practice.

3. Bate while doing other tasks

Similar to the idea before, are there times when you can be both doing something while also bating. An example might be getting dressed in the morning and having a little jerk while doing it. Or maybe you are sitting on the lounge eating dinner while having a wank. Whatever tasks or activities you may be doing, within reason, can you be adding a little bit of bate practice to it? Again adding in more small amounts of time without dedicating more specific time can help to increase the overall amount of time we spend on our bate practice.

4. Bate whether you feel like it or not

Our horniness, libido or sex drive can and will change from one moment to another. One day you may be feeling the most horny you have ever felt. You might have no problem getting an erection and not be able to concentrate on much besides pleasuring yourself. Other days you may be hardly able to get an erection and you may have very little to no desire to even bother with masturbating. My encouragement today is that in those moments of low desire you can and should still bate. Sometimes you may find that when you push past your desire you begin to no longer need it in order to bate. You can learn to separate desire from pleasure. Once you have mastered this you will find you are increasingly able to bate without the need to feel like doing it.

These are just some of the ways in which you can try to increase you bate practice. As always I really encourage you to experiment. Maybe you try one of these methods and see how it works. Maybe you try different methods on different weeks. Whatever you do the goal here is just to see if you can find new ways to increase the amount of time you spend giving yourself pleasure. You are worth all the pleasure and there is no one better to give it to you then yourself.

Till next time bators
Ben

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