Welcome bros to another issue of the best newsletter dedicated to helping you in your bate life! I have been having a lot of fun connecting with many of you and I am always open for a chat any time you want! So feel free to message me and tell me whats happening in your bate life!

I have also been having great fun working with those who have signed up for the bate support program. It is great to be able to spend some time each week getting to know the participants on a personal level and being able to talk about their bate practice in an open and honest way. If this sounds like something you would like to try, then you can sign up for just $10 per month. Each week I connect with the participants and we discuss all things bating in a safe and positive environment. So sign up today!

Also don't forget I have started a YouTube channel. Right now I have two videos, one about making your own sex toys and one about cock rings and ball stretchers. I will be making more videos over the coming weeks. So if you have any topics you would like to see covered then please let me know and make sure you have subscribed to the channel.

Lastly I have an article about Bator Pride which has been published on the Bateworld Bator Blog! Make sure you go and have a read and leave a comment! If you read my newsletter the theme of Bator Pride has been central to everything I have done. But it is another reminder to be proud of Bate Practice. 

So last issue I talked about edging and cumming. For a lot of guys they wouldn't ever consider not cumming. For others they love not cumming. So this issue I am going to be talking about methods and techniques you can use to not cum for many days while edging.

In researching this topic I found this great twitter thread by @bator78 in which he outlines what he does to build up to multi day edging. His approach is similar to my own and involves lots of little playing with yourself. The idea is that you arouse yourself whenever and wherever you can. You continue this process over and over again with no cumming. 

What I also like with his approach is the way he makes the observations that you will start to get boners randomly and eventually you will get to a point where it feels like you will cum very quickly. But in reality you still don't. You still have the ability to jerk a little, stop, and not cum.

After a few days/weeks of doing this you do eventually get so worked up that nothing you can do will stop it. For me one glorious side effect has been that on a few occasions I have gotten so horny and needing to cum that I have actually been able produce some precum (someone on Reddit thinks it was prostate liquid but I don't know enough about anatomy to know for sure). In these moments I have stopped and reached down to touch myself again and had some liquid oozing from my cock. Usually not long after this I have had to cum!

In this kind of practice there is no real end goal. It is not about not cumming, it is not about the amount of days you have gone for. It is about just feeling the waves of pleasure every time you get to spend it with your dick. If today you accidentally (or purposefully) go over the edge and cum you just start doing it all over again.

So they key takeaways for this method are:

1. Play with your dick in short bursts as often as you can throughout the day
2. If you feel yourself get too close to cumming stop and return to something else
3. The longer you do this the more sensations you will begin to feel in your cock and body
4. Eventually you will not be able to hold back
5. Repeat

I thoroughly enjoy this kind of practice and have been doing it for sometime now. I highly recommend giving it a go. Just remember, don't focus on how many days /length of time you go without cumming. The more you do this the length of time will increase of its own accord. Focus instead on how you can give yourself unending pleasure and how that makes you feel even when you are not bating!

Thanks for being apart of this great community of bators. I am so glad you are here. If you want to help support this work then you can always support this newsletter by either signing up to provide $5 per month or you can give a one time donation of your choosing. Help support this important message about male masturbation! 

If you do want to sign up for the Bate Support program, it costs $10 per month and gives you a weekly chat about your practice in a safe and welcoming environment. It is great to get to know guys on a personal level and discuss what things they like and don't like. So sign up today! 

Thanks again! 
Ben