Bate with others

Last issue we centred our discussion around reminding ourselves about how masturbation was a solo practice. That it was part of how we learn about ourselves and our self pleasure. So this week we are going to explore how we take that practice and share it with others.

Sharing our bates is something most of want to do at some level. Whether it is joining Bateworld, posting pictures of ourselves on social media, or chatting on video chats, all of us have wanted to share our bates. Some of this is as validation of ourselves and our practices. Some of this is because we are searching for connection.

One of the main ways in which many men find ways to share their bates is online. There is just so many different ways that I could probably fill an entire newsletter just talking about the various methods. But for our discussion I will limit this to just a handful.

The first way in which many men enjoy sharing is through video chatting or camming. I know that for me in the past I used to love exposing myself on cams. I used to love watching others cams and talking to them as we all sat around playing with our cocks. It was great to see men putting on a performance and having them show off their cumshots at the end.

Another way in which I am increasingly enjoying is using Twitter Spaces. These are audio only calls in which men come together to verbalise their bates. They will make sounds, tell each other what to do, talk about their fantasies. It can be a really hot way of bating, particularly if you like listening to sounds as you bate. 

The last way is chatting in general. We all have sent dick pics via whatever messaging or social media platform we use. I also enjoy receiving them from my followers (I expect some this week please). But having a range of places in which we can connect, talk about our bates, share pictures and videos of ourselves, is all an important part of our bate practice. 

But while meeting and sharing online is great, in my opinion the best way is still in person. Whether that is through a Jack Off Club in which you can get a large group of men together, or whether it is with just one or two people. Being able to spend time with other men just playing with cocks is one of the best experiences. Bating with others allows you to learn new things you might like and it allows you to explore bodies, touch, sensuality. 

I know that for some of us we are not be in a position in which to make in person bating happen. But even still, I do want to encourage you to try it. Since I have started sharing my bates with many men I have not only deepened my understanding of myself, I have also made some beautiful connections with some amazing men who I now class as some of my closest friends. 

So I hope I have inspired you to get out their and share your bates with others, whether virtually or in person. There is so much we can explore and learn from each other. 

If you are looking for an online community to share your bate then I would highly recommend you join the Man Tools Member Chat on Telegram. It is a very lively discussion, with plenty of dicks, chat and more. 

Till next time bators
Ben