The first way is just to talk about it. Whether you talk to your close friends, or you join some online groups, however you want to find people to discuss it with. That discussion doesn't need to be the exact details of how you are doing it but can be simple things like how often, where you do it, what you enjoy about it. This can and should be part of your everyday discussion just like you would other things in your life.
The second way is more related to finding community. The obvious choice is always
BateWorld which is a great social network for meeting other bators. I am sure everyone who reads this newsletter already has an account. But I also want to encourage you to find and join other groups that are filled with bators. You can join the
Man Tools Telegram chat which is pretty active or their other telegram chats which are also highly bate focused. Their are also groups on KiK and other platforms that I am sure you can find if you go looking hard enough.