Its hard to believe it is almost Christmas. Here in Australia that means most people are about to go on a couple of weeks holidays (including myself). It also means lots of social events are filling up the calendar! It is also a great time of year to reflect on what has happened to us over the year and what we are looking forward to. As such over the next couple of issues I will be revisiting some of the main themes we have explored here at Man Tools.

The Bate Support Program has been going well and is open for anyone who is interested in some more tailored bate advice. This is a great opportunity for you to discuss what you enjoy, how you enjoy it and explore new experiences. The guys I have been working with have been making incredible realisations about their bates and what they enjoy. So if you think you feel like your bate practice could use some new inspiration this is the program for you. If you want a no obligation discussion then simply reply to this email (of hit me up on socials). Otherwise for $10 per month you can join in on this great program (this is a steal at this price!!)

Over the last couple of weeks I have been changing up my own edging practice as I have wanted to explore some new sensations. I have been doing a lot more edging over a whole day on and off and ending with a cumshot. I have also been incorporating my vibrator a lot more as I seek new feelings in my penis.

Edging for me means more then just not cumming, and more then just prolonging my cum. For me edging is a way of masturbating that seeks a pleasure that I can only find in my penis. It is a feeling that takes over my mind and body as I seek to pleasure myself through stimulating my penis. 

The best part of edging for me is being able to spend time stimulating myself in many different ways. By stopping and and starting I am able to find new sensations and techniques to make myself stimulated. And best of all that stimulation doesn't need to stop you can start and stop it as often as you want or need.

Another thing I have really enjoyed is getting to that feeling where I want more stimulation. The way this feeling has taken over my day has been something I have really allowed. i've been putting on some porn videos while I have been doing other tasks, whether work or pleasure, and just zoning into and out of it as I felt the need. Doing this technique I find myself getting hard for a bit and then soft for a little while. But I've always let the porn movie play itself out not seeking to get to the parts I like but letting it run. 

So what I want to encourage everyone to is to have a think about what edging means to them. Edging itself can mean many different things to different people so I want you to come up with a definition of what it means to you. When you know what that definition is I want you to practice it and practice it. You deserve the pleasure that it should bring you. 

Remember edging doesn't need to be hours at a time. It doesn't even need to be about cum denial. It is about stimulating your penis is a way that feels good for you with no expectations 

Well that is it for another issue of Man Tools - the number 1 newsletter for the discussion of male masturbation. If you would like to support this newsletter then you can by either committing to $5 per month or by a one time donation! I write this newsletter because I want to see all men be able to explore their bate practice in safe and welcoming environment and any donations received help to continue that. 

If you have any ideas or thoughts about what you want to see me cover you are always welcome to reach out to me either via replying to this email or via socials. 

Till next time
Benno