Welcome to the New Year

If you had told me at the beginning of this year that I would have done all the things I have, I would've called you crazy! My bate club, jackALL Club, has really taken off over the last 6 months and we are now doing two events a month. It really is one of the things I am most proud of in my life. On top of that I am meeting so many wonderful bators, many of whom I now call some of my closest friends. Life can really change very quickly from small events.

Recenty I was able to spend some time out naked in nature. I really value this time to be alone and naked. I was able to find a place in which I could hike naked and spend time bating amongst the trees. I highly recommend finding a way to do this if you can as it is a great way to reconnect with yourself and your own pleasure.

I'm having a bit of an unlucky time with social media at the moment. My X/Twitter account for Man Tools got suddenly shut down at 75K followers. I have also had a strike against me on the Man Tools Instagram account. I've started a new X account but have yet to post as I don't want them to think I am bypassing the ban yet. I have also joined Bluesky as well, so come and follow me there as well.

Bate Deeply

How often do we get the chance to really spend time bating? I know for many of us our bate practice is made of lots of small amounts of time in which we might be able to jerk off. An hour or so here and there. This gives us enough time to edge for a bit, explore a few things, and then cum.

This year I am going to encourage you to set aside more longer time periods in which you can explore your bate practice. During these longer sessions it is important to set up some rituals or ways in which you can signify that this is important time just for yourself. Make sure that you won't be interrupted by people, or at least, if they do it won't take away from this time you have set yourself. Maybe light some incense, candles, or use some essential oils. Set up some music which can help you to relax and focus on yourself and your pleasure.

Once you have this time set aside and the environment set up right, then you want to explore yourself however you want. If you like to watch porn you can. If you like to cam with people, you can. If you like to use toys, you can. Whatever you want to explore you should with no judgements. You can and should also try lots of different things in the time you have free.

It is also important that this time does not have any expectations associated with it. So much of our lives is dictated by things we have to achieve and this time is not about doing anything in particular. We are simply going to sit with ourselves and masturbate. We are going to give ourselves as much pleasure as we can for as long as we can.

We might, if we are lucky, find ourselves in a gooning state. Gooning is simply the feeling of being so into our bate that we can't, or don't want to stop. It is similar in feeling to being in a deep trance like meditative state. It is a deep feeling of being so into yourself, your dick, and your pleasure. I also want to point out that gooning itself is highly individualised. The way each of us experiences it will be different and so you shouldn't limit yourself to what you see depicted on the internet for gooners.

Even if you don't find yourself gooning out, at the very least you should be very into yourself and your pleasure. This time is just about you and what you want after all. By setting aside some time for this self exploration and self pleasure, we are seeking to understand new things about ourselves.

While we might only be able to give ourselves this time and space of rare occasions, what we develop from it we can carry into our daily practice. From my own experience, I have learnt how to give myself deep pleasure much easier now that I have had some deeper practice. We can change the ways in which we give ourselves pleasure by giving ourselves the time and space to go deeper within. So I highly encourage you to experience some more deep bating.

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Till next time Bators
Benno

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