Welcome to another issue of the best (am I biased?) newsletter about male masturbation there is! I would be grateful if could you spread the word on my humble little newsletter. I think this message is one that many men could get something from so feel free to forward it on or send people over to the website and get them to sign up!

For those of you who don't follow me on Instagram you might not have heard about how much fun I've been having inviting some new bate buddies around. I even had a group session this week with two of my existing buds which was so much fun and hot as hell! I absolutely recommend finding some bate buddies if you don't have any. 

Lastly just a general reminder that if you want to support this newsletter then please consider signing up for the VIP Club for just $5 per month! Or if you are in need of some deeper help or someone to talk about your bate with, sign up for the Bate Support Program. This is designed as a program to give you space to talk about and explore what your bate practice means to you and how that is part of who you are!

The last couple of weeks I have been sharing my penis with other men. There is something so magical when we give ourselves and our pleasure over to another person. But these acts have also had me thinking about myself and how I give myself pleasure. How I can take what I have learned from others and apply it to myself and my own practice. 

1. A lot of your pleasure is found in surrender.

When you give in to the sensations, feelings, and pleasure, is when you really connect with yourself. I think that is why lots of bators use poppers as that brief high can help you to fully surrender to the moment. But I believe you can also achieve this without the use of aids by simply being in the moment. So I want to encourage you to try and let go completely and give yourself over to your bate. 

4. The are plenty of pressures to perform in a certain way.

We are often confronted with many different ways to perform in certain circumstances that we might not all be able to meet. A way in which we can explore and interrogate these assumptions is to think of them in the context of ourselves and our own practice. Does it matter how long you bate for? Does it matter how much you cum? Are you balls really not big enough? I have learned through my shared experiences that often what we think of as negative can be different between people.  

So I want to encourage you this week to think about yourself and how you practice. Challenge your assumptions and habits. You are a unique individual who has all the power you need to experience all the personal pleasure you want. 

I hope you have found something in those thoughts that you can bring to your bate practice. We are all unique individuals and we all have different perspectives and thoughts about bating. So if this has bought up any feelings or thoughts let me know. I always want to hear about them!

Don't forget that I post all the past issues on my website. I also have a lot of bator porn that I post which you should also follow. And if you're looking for a great community to share and talk about bating come over to the Man Tools Telegram Members Chat. 

You may have also noticed I have changed the background colour of the email. I had some feedback that sometimes people couldn't see the links. If you do ever have issues with the readability of the newsletter please let me know. 

Till next time Bators
Ben