Celebrating Issue 50

It is hard to believe that when I sent my first issue in June 2021 that I would still be doing it in 2023 and that I would've written 50 newsletters! Since those humble beginnings (This is the first issue if you want to see it), I have expanded into so many different things that I wouldn't have dreamed about.

The one that makes me most proud is the Bate Support Program. Being able to talk directly to guys about their issues has been one of the most rewarding aspects of my journey. So much so that I even started a counselling course to improve my skills and to take this to another level! But remember that if you ever have things you want to discuss then I am always willing to listen.

I also want to shout out all the people, both past and present, who are VIP Club members. Running Man Tools is not free and requires both time and money. If you want to join them and support the Man Tools Mission then join the VIP Club for just $5 per month. 

Going Deeper into your Bate

So todays topic for discussion is going deep with your bate. But what do we mean when we talk about going deep into your bate? How can you actually go deeper into your bate?

Lets start with a quick recap of what goes into a bate practice. Remember we are talking about not just the act of masturbating, but rather an exploration of self pleasure. Bating and bate practice is about exploring yourself through that self pleasure.

One way in which we often talk about bating is through the act or practice of edging. In its simplest form this is the process of getting yourself highly aroused and taking yourself as close to cumming as possible (sometimes referred to as the PONR or point of no return) and then stopping. You edge by continually riding this edge of cumming for as long as you can, alternating between getting close and then slowing down. 
When some people do this for extended periods of time they start to explore different techniques. They may start to add in other parts of their bodies into their practice or they may mix up their technique. Basically the longer you practice edging and prolonged masturbation you will start to look for new things to incorporate into that practice. This is one aspect of going deeper.

Another aspect of going deeper is the meditative and inward reflection that comes from your practice. This is an exploration of your self that you can find through your pleasure. You can explore who you are and what you like through the pleasure that you are giving to yourself and therefore learn more about you. 
Lastly, I want to talk about the relationship between the use of poppers and ideas about going deep. In bate culture there is often a link between huffing lots of poppers and going deep or even gooning (a topic we can explore more later). This is because poppers give you a short term high that can make you feel more spiritual and inward focused. Therefore there is often a link to poppers and going deep into your bate.

Whichever aspect of going deep you want to focus on is perfectly fine. In fact you can try a little bit of each at any one time as well. The aim though is to really hone in on and explore what pleasure you are giving yourself and what that says about you as a person.

What can you learn about yourself through going deeper and deeper into your bate practice?

If you already enjoy going deeper into your bate what can you add? 
Don't forget that I have opened up a threadless store so you can now buy a Man Tools T-shirt! There are a couple of different versions but if there is something you want specifically let me know as I will be adding some different designs over the coming months. This is another great way to show support for the Man Tools Mission so what are you waiting for?

Thanks again for being a subscriber! Till next time Bators
Ben
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