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This weeks newsletter features a masturbation meditation provided by the wonderful Corey. I meet him through Twitter and reached out to him straight away to write for the newsletter! He runs a tantric practice in Melbourne Australia which you can find about from his website. You can also follow him on Twitter and Instagram for even more of him! 

Sometimes with self-pleasure, we just want to get it over and done with, what I call McDonald’s masturbation.  However, it can be more elevated than that if you are open to exploring sexual self-development. Through 5 senses of meditative masturbation (Heart connection), we can elevate how we connect to self and eventually others. When initiating this practice, I recommend that you set aside at least 45 minutes to 1 hour and you are completely naked and in a quiet place so that you can concentrate and go inward during this 5-part session.  You will need a blindfold or eye mask, a mirror, some coconut oil for lube (or any alternative), and a quiet space to practice.

First, put on the eye mask and sit upright so that you are present and connected to the ground and facing the mirror. Take a deep breath through the nose and pull the breath from the tummy up to the middle of the heart (visualize this as well) and hold for 5 seconds and then release through the mouth. Repeat this exercise about 3 to 4 times to get the blood and energy pumping through the body.

To make the heart connection exercise effective I would suggest about 5/10 minutes for each of the following senses. If you have google home (or similar) ask them to set a timer. Otherwise, just take a guess and go with the flow of each sense and how you feel. The goal is to take your time.

Touch
When you touch yourself do it slowly and intimately, I usually start around the ears, and neck and move down the chest and nipples using fingertips only.  Continue to touch your tummy, pubic hair (if intact), groin, cock, and balls.  A nice way to touch our cock is to do light presses up and down the shaft, which is almost like having acupressure but instead, it’s for your cock.  Balls can be lightly touched with fingertips touching the hairs and brushing your inner groin. This is all about light touches and you can continue down to the asshole, your knees, and feet. When you are ready, or the timer goes off move on to the next sense exercise.

Taste
Taste is all about being aware of our mouth and lips and you can activate them in a solo manner by licking your lips, tasting your saliva, moving your lips over your teeth, and even putting saliva on your nipples and cock head. Even licking your arm Pitts or tasting your fingers if you are willing. 

Smell
Our smell is a primal sense and helps us to connect to others sexually.  But first, we need to connect to our own scent to truly understand how important this sense is.  Smell your Pitts as this aroma is sexually charged and can help to create strong erotic energy. Put your fingers around your cock head and smell its scent. You can do the same for the balls and the taint or asshole if you are more adventurous, it’s important not to shame yourself in this exercise. It’s your body and connecting to it through smell is powerful.

Sound
Spend some time combining all 3 of the previous senses, exploring the body with touch, taste, and smell, and emit sound as you do this.  If you want to heighten your orgasm then make noise, let it out, and be as loud as possible. This is all about letting go and being free. It is at this point that you focus on your breathing and imagine pushing all your erotic energy from your balls and anus all the way up to your heart holding for a count of 10 and then letting out a big growl.

Sight
You can take off the blindfold slowly and then focus on your whole body in the mirror, and again touching, tasting, and smelling yourself whilst creating sound in full view. You may want to anoint part of your body with coconut oil and slowly stroke, twist, and glide over your cock and balls while watching yourself.  Imagine the erotic energy you have created in your balls and cock moving up through the body and into your heart and releasing the energy with a growl or sigh. It is at this point that you can let go but whatever you do makes noise and shout out when you cum to heighten the experience.


Sit for a good 5 minutes repeating the breath exercise at the end holding for 5-10 seconds and moving the breath up to the heart and releasing with sound just to get the last of your sexual energy out. You may discover a new sexual switch within yourself that you didn’t know existed and you can further explore that switch (one of the 5 senses) with a lover or partner.

Thanks again to Corey for taking the time to write for us. Please all send him some love on Twitter and Instagram! Hopefully I can convince him to write for us again!

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Until next time Bators
Ben