Welcome back to another issue of the hottest bating newsletter on the internet. The big news this issue is I booked my flights to attend the Master Bator Convention in Pittsburgh, USA. I am going to have Jared talking about this more in a future issue but for now if you want further information about the event then head over to the website. It is running from the 2nd until the 5th of August . I will be hosting some form of event during the event so it would be great to see some of you come along!

Around the convention I am also going to be doing a tour of Jack Off Clubs. This will be a great opportunity to visit some other clubs, get some ideas for my own club, and meet some people who I've spoken to online but never in person. There is such a vibrant community of jack off clubs around the world and it will be good to experience this in real life.

If you've also missed any recent issues I have updated the past issues page with a link to all of them. So please head on over to the website and you should find everything you need.

Mirrorbating

This issue the topic was suggested by my friend Stripjacknaked. It's a fun topic and one which I don't think enough men explore often enough. I0t is definitely something a lot of men have enjoyed at some point in their lives. So first let's talk about some simple techniques you can try and then we can turn to some thoughts around it.

First let's start by getting ourselves set up. I suggest that you want a mirror in which you can see all of yourself, so probably a full length mirror or a place where you have a couple of mirrors to get different angles. You are going to want to be comfortable as possible during the session and you are going to want to make sure you have enough time and privacy. I personally like to set up a mirror in my bedroom for doing this as that way I can alternate between standing and sitting.

Once you have the mirrors set up you are going to want to strip down naked and begin to explore your body. I want this to be a slow and steady exploration of every part of yourself, from the head to the toes. Do not rush this part. Use the mirror to see yourself in different ways. Use your hands to feel yourself and if you like you could also add in a bit of oil to make it like giving yourself a massage. When you find a particular part of your body that gives you nice sensations, you should spend some time exploring that with different strokes and pressure.

Eventually you are going to start working on your penis. But I want you to focus on how it looks in the mirror. Watch how you bate. Change how you bate. Try different viewing points. The mirror is going to provide you a way of watching yourself and how you do something as distinct from what you are normally able to do. Focus on the bating and your penis as an object that is distinct from yourself.

When you are coming close to cumming then you will want to position yourself in such a way as you can see it. Stand closer to the mirror if you want to cum on it (though this is not necessary). But again focus on how it looks that you are getting close. Examine the way your body reacts, how your face reacts, and how it feels to be seeing those in your body. Then let out your cum and if possible let out a loud moan or noise as it starts!

So how did that feel? What did it bring up? Did it make your bate practice different?

I am now going to share some words from my friend Stripjacknaked around what he likes about mirrorbating:

I almost always have a mirror nearby but nowadays it’s a small mirror which allows me to focus on my beautiful penis. When I was younger and fitter I would regularly make love to my image in the mirror because I was so happy to see how my body had developed tone and muscularity. As I was masturbating I would try to identify where the pleasure was emanating from, but I could not distinguish between myself, my hand, my penis or all those things in the mirror. I guess there was a dissociation taking place, but this dissociation developed into a merging, until orgasm where I didn’t know who or what I was. Afterwards I would be sure to linger in the space where I was. I’d deliberately be very kind to myself, gently taking myself to bed, usually, and to restful sleep.

For me I think mirrorbating is a great way of exploring your body. It allows you to view it in different ways and really get a sensation of what it feels like. I am a visual person and so the mirror provides me with a visual simulation that is like watching porn but it is myself that is providing it. I like how that makes me feel.

Now I would like to hear from you. Do you like mirrorbating? Have you ever mirrorbated?

In closing out this issue I want to encourage you to come over to the Man Tools Member Chat on Telegram. It is a very active community of people who share their bates and penises. There are also a list of other Telegram channels which I post lots of bate material too if you are interested.

If you are in Sydney also remember that I do run a monthly in person Bate Club that I would love for you to come along to. The next event is on Sunday 25th February and will be a Sydney Mardi Gras Special event!

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Thanks as always! Till next time Bators!
Ben

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