2. Setting
The place in which we bate is often the place in which we feel most safe and secure. For most men it is probably in our bed, bedroom, or at home somewhere. We may of occasion, do it somewhere else for either a thrill (i.e. its somewhere we are more likely to get caught) or because we have an opportunity somewhere new (we may be on holidays or something similar). Regardless the place in which we bate may in fact alter the way in which we both experience that bate but also the kind of bating we do. We are probably not going to have a marathon bate session in a public toilet, but we might at home on our couch. When we are thinking, then, about the perfect bate session we want a place in which we can be relaxed, secure and that we can bate for as long as we want without being interrupted.