Creating the Perfect Bate

I've been thinking for the last couple of weeks about what makes the perfect bate. I am sure we all have different ideas about what we enjoy when we are bating. So maybe what we should do is talk about what those things mean to each of us and then we can come up with some form of rating or evaluation system. Here's my first attempt at formulating some categories to evaluate our bates against. Let me know if you have any others you think we should add.

1. Time

There is often this desire to spend hours and hours bating. This is perfectly acceptable and definitely something I would encourage more men to participate in. But at the other end of the scale there is a simple bate that leaves you satisfied but which doesn't take that long to achieve. If I was to think about what this is for me it is probably something around 30 mins to an hour. For the perfect bate then we are looking for that length of time which leaves us satisified, maybe even wanting a little bit more.

2. Setting

The place in which we bate is often the place in which we feel most safe and secure. For most men it is probably in our bed, bedroom, or at home somewhere. We may of occasion, do it somewhere else for either a thrill (i.e. its somewhere we are more likely to get caught) or because we have an opportunity somewhere new (we may be on holidays or something similar). Regardless the place in which we bate may in fact alter the way in which we both experience that bate but also the kind of bating we do. We are probably not going to have a marathon bate session in a public toilet, but we might at home on our couch. When we are thinking, then, about the perfect bate session we want a place in which we can be relaxed, secure and that we can bate for as long as we want without being interrupted.

3. Position

The way in which bate is also impacted on by the position we do it in. For most of us we spend the majority of our time bating either sitting or laying down. But we can also do it on our knees, squatting, or standing to name a few. Each position will mean that we bate in a different way. It may also impact on other aspects, such as time or techniques. We should evaluate how our position is impacting on our bate practices and see if there are different positions which may give us better results. Again there is probably a position that we feel most safe and that we will be able to be comfortable in for the required time that would lead to our perfect bate.

4. Techniques

How we bate is probably the last of the main areas which will have an impact on how good our bate practice is. I have in the past written about different techniques, but as a summary you have things like using just your fingers, your whole hand, backhanded, two handed, your opposite hand. All these varied techniques will give you different sensations and pleasure. We will instinctively have one which we know will get us to the best place. So when you are thinking about your perfect bate, think about which one is most likely to be that one.

5. BONUS - Incorporating toys and other things

I think for the vast majority of times we bate just our hand is more than enough. But if we are to think about finding the perfect bate, we can't do that without at least discussing or considering using toys or other things (such as poppers). I have a few toys which I always turn to when I am wanting to elevate my bate session or to switch it up. I have a couple of different sleeves and vibrating toys which I quite like to incorporate occasionally. For some of you, I know that poppers really do elevate your bate experience to another level so your perfect bate may include them and that's perfectly fine and acceptable.

I think by examining each of these different aspects of our bates we may well be able to find something which is our perfect bate. For me I love nothing more then to be sitting naked, spread on the lounge, watching some porn, bating for an hour or two. But what is your perfect bate?

Till next time bators
Ben

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