I have over the last couple of years developed a very strong bating ritual. It starts every morning when my alarm goes off at 5:30am. I then head downstairs to make a pot of coffee before heading to my office. I then spend the next hour browsing Instagram (who knew there could be some much sexually expressive content on it!). Afterwards I will then spend time on Telegram, X (Twitter), etc, just finding new porn, reposting etc.
What I like about this ritual is that for the majority of it my dick is out. Sometimes it is hard and I am jerking it furiously. Other times it will go soft and I just play with it. Most of the time I don't even cum at the end. I just stop bating, head to the shower and get ready for work.
This ritual reminds me of how it is sometimes nice to allocate time to ourselves and our bate practices. Many of us grew up where bating was something we would sneak in. It was definitely not something we were taught to enjoy and savour. This is a way of breaking down that notion and instead giving ourselves permission to pleasure ourselves.
Just to be clear this doesn't need to be large amounts of time. It can be as simple as setting yourself 15 mins during the day to have a little bit of a play. It is also totally up to you if you want to include some form of edging practice into it. Or whether you simply want to make sure that you cum everyday. This bating ritual is about the allocation of time in much the same way as you give yourself time to do any number of other leisure activities.
So how will you incorporate a bating ritual into your life? What will your bating ritual look like?
Till next time bators Ben
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