What an amazing fortnight I have had! I celebrated being with my Husband for 20 years on Monday! It was a great couple of days spent hanging out, eating, drinking, reconnecting. 

The other thing that happened to me is a great new connection. I was connected with Nick Woof who has created the Bromance Club a place to form bator connections across the world through online events. He has since branched out into the real world with the Bator Bro events which I have been promoting. I love how diverse and connected this bator community is and I definitely love meeting new people doing work in this area.

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This week I have been inspired to write about my love for my penis and penises more generally. I did a short video for Instagram about penis love this week but I thought the topic was worthy of a deeper discussion. 

If you have been around the bator culture for any length of time you may have come across people talking about phallus worship. In this religious world view, the phallus is to be celebrated as central to a man's self pleasure. Not only is a man supposed to masturbate but that this masturbation is ultimately an expression of our love for god. For god is our cock. 

While I am not advocating for or against this practice, in fact I have in issue 9 had someone guest writing about how to worship your cock. I think as bators there is something we can take from these practices to enrich our own. That is our penis is a source of great pleasure and self identity for us and therefore we should value and love it more than we do. 

When was the last time that you looked at and felt your penis with love and care and not just for utility? What I want to encourage you to do is sit down, get naked, and just touch your penis. Feel its skin, feel your balls, look at the head. Really deeply and emotionally connect with your penis. The idea is not for this to be sexual or to be about making your penis hard and/or cumming. It is instead about getting to know your penis on a new level.

Along with this self examination I also want to encourage you to think about and explore different sensations and feelings you get from your penis. Whether it is touching it in new and different ways. Whether it is getting a feather or some other objects and touching/rubbing/hitting them against your penis. As with the rest of your body the penis is an incredible tool which has lots of different ways of experiencing sensations and so you should explore this more. You may even learn something new to add into your regular bate practice.

Another important aspect of penis love that I want to discuss is that feeling you get when you are deep in your bate. Often referred to as the goon state, it is when you can think or do nothing but play with your penis. It is in this moment that I personally feel totally connected and one with my penis. There is nothing else I want to do but give me cock the attention and pleasure it deserves. It feels never ending.

I hope this exploration has shown you ways in which you too can love your penis more. Your penis is one of the greatest tools for self pleasure. You should continually be exploring it and learning about it. You should love it. 

If this has raised any issues or thoughts I am interested to hear them. Please reach out to me via socials or by replying to this email. I think we all need to learn to love our cocks more. 

Don't forget that if you are in London you can join the Bator Bro event! It will be a great way to meet some fellow bators and it is only £15 to attend. If you are going to attend let me know! 

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Ben