Bate for yourself

Today I want to explore some of the reasons we may bate. I have found myself particularly without much focus the last couple of weeks. Some of that has been to do with changes in my life. Some of it has been because I have felt less horny/sexual over the last couple of weeks. But whatever the reason you have for losing interest and/or focus, I hope that this weeks newsletter will inspire you to remember what you are bating for - yourself!

Primarily, masturbation is a solo act. Is it something we start doing when we are young as a way of exploring ourselves and giving ourselves pleasure. As we get older, our motivations for bating can change from wanting to experience our own pleasure, to being sexually frustrated.

We can also share our masturbating with others. We can attend jack off clubs, we can go on Bateworld and find other bators, we can meet people in other places as well. All these are ways of both experiencing bating - that is getting our sexual pleasure through the act of masturbation - and doing so with others. 

But what can get lost in this practice of sharing our bates is the self pleasure aspect. When you are particularly focused on yourself and your penis. When you are so deep in that pleasure that you want nothing more than to play with yourself - often referred to as gooning. That is when you remember why you enjoy masturbating so much.

Remember how it felt as a teenager to masturbate all the time with very little need for anything else. That's the kind of energy I want you to find. Inside all of us is a feeling of wanting to pleasure ourselves. We can channel that by focusing our masturbation just on ourselves and what we want to do. 

Bate for yourself.

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Till next time bators
Ben